Day 10... detox

by Christina


peace... it does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. it means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
— -unknown

As a child, we had one phone in the house. It hung on the wall, had the spirally-type cord with a rotary dial. At some point, we got a push-button phone but it never was quite the same as waiting for that dial to turn. Everyone answered the phone as you didn't know who was calling, you learned how to politely answer, and then find the person being requested or you took a message. It was a shared communication device.

There were two televisions in the house although they weren't used that much, at least not by today's standards. The radio played in the morning and the t.v. was rarely on the evenings...maybe because my parents tucked  me into bed an an insanely early hour.

In the basement, my father had this HUGE metal box that took up half the floor-space. I asked him what it was and he said "it's a modern computer." It was the early 80's.

And as we all know, there's been an explosion of technological advances over the past few decades. With upgrades to our computers, televisions, audio-listening devices, headphones, and our phones. We are truly spoiled with the access we have to information; not to mention how easy it has become to stay in contact with friends and family regardless of where we live.

But something's happened along the way and this increased ability to stay connected has introduced an odd element of disconnect, overwhelm, and chaos. We are constantly exposed to information, late-breaking news, advertisements, etc. Sometimes it seems like all the technology is screaming "more, more, more." The family phone is long-gone and now it's a personal device. My phone, your phone, his phone, her phone... not our phone. It's "mine, mine, mine."

Often times, we turn to the television to watch the news; some say it's for background noise, others because they need to stay current. Morning news, 5 pm news, just before bed news and then there's the specialized news channels to allow you access to the news 24-7. And the news isn't good. Even when there's a lull in domestic or world events, the news channels still seem to find the negative to report and not the good. Yet we tell ourselves we need to stay current, connected, and in-the-know about what's going on in the world.

As the quote at the top of the page says, peace is about finding that place in the midst of chaos not void of chaos. However minimizing exposure to some of the chaos might be just what we need.

Day 10. Peace tip.

Take a moment to think about the digital distractions you have in your life. Now, I'm not talking about sincere use of technology that allows us to quickly and easily access needed information. I'm referring to the interruptions your phone/texting, social media, the news on the television brings to your day. If you're feeling like you couldn't go without your phone or the news for a day, this tip is for you. If you find yourself making a list of reasons why this won't work, take a moment to reflect and ask yourself why.

Try it. Detox. Minimize the noise, the distraction, the chaos.

Let it go.

~Christina

PS - I want to be transparent in this process. This is a tough tip for me. I was able to get rid of "the news" over a year ago however, my phone is a different situation. It's a work in progress.


Day 9... knitted lessons

by Christina


In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you
— Deepak Chopra

You want peace, right? Yet, life seems like it's crazy busy, always on the go, so much to do and never a moment to spare. It's a busy time for so many whether it's preparing for a holiday season, school functions to attend for your children or grandchildren, more cooking to do, the never-ending deadlines at work, more social functions, and the gift-knitting, the list goes on...

So, you turn to your knitting for a little downtime.

You wind a ball of yarn in your desire to quickly get started, it knots like you've never seen before and after a few moments your frustrations begin to build.

You gloss over the pattern instructions while you watch your favorite t.v. show or listen to the news, only to find out a few (or many) rows later your stitch count is off. "But I read the instructions" you proclaim.

You sit down to knit and after you finish you realize you can't recall those moments you were knitting? Where did my mind wander?

We turned to our knitting because it brings us peace, right. But what about the scenarios above were peaceful? Maybe it wasn't the knitting itself that was "unpeaceful" but how we responded to the situation. Perhaps our attention was elsewhere meaning we weren't really engaged.in the process.

What is your knitting telling you?

Do you need to slow down, turn inward and focus on the task at hand?

Do you need to take a breath when the situation isn't going quite as planned?

Are you being intentional with your knitting?

Now, this isn't to say that there aren't skeins of yarn that are destined to knot, or poorly written patterns, or an appropriate time for mindless knitting. All these things are true but it's how we respond to these situations that provides each one of us with some insight...if we are listening.

Perhaps our knitting is teaching us the need to be more mindful with our actions. And that's how we can use our knitting to truly find stillness amidst all the chaos in our world.

Day 9. Peace tip.

When you knit today, focus in on the stitches. Watch your hands as you insert the needle, wrap or pick the yarn, move the needles, and allow the newly formed stitch to gracefully move from the left to the right needle. With one new stitch formed, think about this incredible act because each one of those new stitches is added to the next to create something beautiful.

Now, as you begin to pick up speed, repeat I - AM - HERE as you knit 3 stitches. Find a rhythm. Pay attention to your breath. Allow your breath to set the pace...inhale over 3 stitches and then exhale over 3 stitches.

Listen to your knitting. Is it telling you to slow down and be present?

What's your knitted lesson?

As an aside... let's say you don't knit. This strategy could be applied to almost anything. Perhaps even cleaning the house.

Peace to you today, one stitch at a time.

~Christina

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Day 8... doodley-day

by Christina


I love to doodle. When I can't knit yet I feel the need to keep my hands busy, usually during a meeting, I doodle. And yes, I scribble a lot of peace-related items.

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For months, I've been thinking and dreaming of a way to include some peace doodles into Project Peace. I had this vision in my head of creating a "peace-garland" including a sweater and shawl that could be printed and then strung together to hang in the window, on a tree, or around a package... Oh, but how to get that idea out of my head and into reality.

During a conversation with mentor, friend, knitter-extraordinaire, knitwear designer, writer, illustrator, and craftivist, Donna Druchunas, I described my idea, sent her a photo of the doodle above, and she turned it into something incredible. Today, I share with all of you her amazing interpretation of this vision. Her gift to Project Peace ... a peace-garland.

And I need to take this time to thank Donna, not just for this gift but also for guiding me on this knitted path for 3 years because peace is also taking the time to say thank you!

Peace Garland by Donna Druchunas

Peace Garland by Donna Druchunas

All you have to do is click on the image above and you can download the pdf document with the images. There are instructions on how to make the garland on the first page. You can choose to just use these as coloring pages or make the full garland.

You might consider using this garland to start a conversation about peace, knitting, and wooly-goodness. Perhaps you could engage a child in the process and then talk a bit about what peace means to him/her. String one in your office, decorate your local yarn store window, or public library. Color them, cut them out and use them as gift tags or scatter them on a table at a gathering. Maybe write a note about peace on the back of each one and leave them around town for others to find.

Please share your ideas on how we might use this garland. At this point, I'm quite convinced that you're an extremely creative and talented "kindness of knitters."

Day 8. Peace tip.

Peace sometimes means taking a break from all the things on the to-do list. Taking a moment to step back from everything that needs to be done and engaging in something different than your normal routine. Today's coloring pages and garland provide that chance. On the back of each of the cut-outs, write a note to yourself about things you want to remember about cultivating peace in the days, weeks, months to come.

May you find peace in taking the time to treat yourself to this activity.

~Christina


Day 7... time for a walk

by Christina


The mind can go in a thousand directions, but on this beautiful path, I walk in peace. With each step, the wind blows. With each step, a flower blooms.
— Thich Nhat Hahn

What path are you on?

Aimless wandering or wandering aimlessly?

Are you walking away from something? Towards something?

Each step...what does it mean? Or is it as simple as one step down, the other foot down, repeat. Simple, no need to overthink.

When you walk where does your mind go? What do you observe? Do you hear the sounds around you or have you drifted to a far off to Never-Never land. Or maybe it's a numb void and you can't recall where you've been during your walk.

Thich Nhat Hahn in "How to Walk" says you must take one step and feel your foot against the earth and not step forward until you are aware of your connection. Bring intention to your steps. Be mindful about your actions.

Walk as though you imprint your solidity, your freedom, and your peace on the Earth.
— Thich Nhat Hahn

Without intention, perhaps it's just a walk and there's good in that. Yet it's a walk of peace if you bring your awareness to your steps and there's greatness here. Learning to be present on your walk; a gift you can give yourself.

Day 7. Peace tip.

Today, take the time to go on a peace walk. Be aware and don't let the walk pass you by. Look for signs of peace...maybe that's internal or perhaps external. Today, we intentionally slow things down.

Practice mindful walking with a simple mantra. Perhaps you repeat with each step... I - AM - PEACE. Or maybe it's something else. Using your voice will help keep your attention on your stepping.

Feel alive on your walk...

Breathe in the fresh crisp air of the winter morn or the salty, heavy moisture of the summer ocean air.

Listen to the crunch of the fallen leaves under your feet or the chirp of the birds.

Touch your surroundings....

Look for signs of growth, life, nurture and nature.

Smile, breathe and go slowly.
— Thich Nhat Hahn

May your day be filled with peace...

~Christina